Divorce & Family Mediation M. Christine Burt, Attorney
Law Office of Edward C. Burt Jr., PC

A BASIC CHECKLIST FOR A SEPARATION (I.E. DIVORCE) AGREEMENT

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The Children
  • Legal Custody (the power to make major decisions)
  • Where do they live
  • When does the other parent have access
  • Removal from Connecticut, or moving within the state
  • Emergency decisions
  • Temporary incompetence of one parent
Alimony and Child Support (the Child Support Guidelines)
  • Amount and timing
  • Tax treatment
  • Inflation
  • Reductions
    • Emancipation
    • Remarriage and “cohabitation”
  • Duration
    • Child support ends when emancipated, usually
    • When does alimony end? (cannot be affected by a child)
      • Leave the question open?
      • Waiver of all future alimony?
College And Other Education
  • Summer camp, extracurricular activities, other costs
  • Private school
  • Graduate school
  • Weddings, etc.
Medical Insurance And Expenses
  • Insurance for the children
  • Insurance for the non-employee spouse, if there is one
  • Uninsured medical and dental expenses—braces, therapy, etc.

Life Insurance

  • Duration, amount, beneficiaries, proof of insurance
  • Relationship to support obligation
Income Tax Returns
  • The pending refund or liabilities
  • How to file for this year?
  • If joint, how to divide liabilities
Property Division
  • Equitable distribution under C.G.S. Sec. 46b-81
  • THE HOUSE
    • Use and possession
    • Ownership
    • Buy-out for cash or exchange for release of other assets, such as pension or business
    • Liability for mortgage remains after transfer of ownership between spouses
    • Tax consequence of transfer between spouses
    • Timing for sale or transfer
    • When the children are emancipated
    • Some other defined time
  • OTHER REAL ESTATE (vacation house, rental units, etc.)
  • PERSONAL PROPERTY
    • Pensions
    • Business Interests
    • Other intangibles: securities, royalties, receivables, bank accounts
    • Inheritances
    • Tangibles
Debts and Credit Cards
  • The mortgage on the house, any equity loan, any other mortgage on any property
  • Liability for joint mortgage debt remains after transfer of jointly owned property between spouses
  • College or other student loans
  • Individual debts
  • How to eliminate all joint credit cards
Standard Provisions
  • Separate wills
  • Waiver of future claims
  • Personal freedom to live his or her own life
  • Mediation of future disputes
  • Completeness of this agreement
  • Status of the agreement
    • Merged into the judgment
    • Survives as an independent contract

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